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Jul 29 2017

Let the universe know what you want

Throughout my entire career, I have been very blessed with many opportunities. I’ve gotten to do the things I’ve wanted to do, to build up my of skill set, and push myself to the next thing.

At one point I use to consider it luck that an opportunity would show up and carry me to a new place or a new experience. I have learned that it is not luck as it is the willingness to be open to these new opportunities. To put myself out there for them to find me.

I put my goals and ambitions out into the universe and I let the universe work out how they might come to fruition.

That is my very high-level concept.

In reality, there are some very easy steps a person can take to move them in the direction of their goals. This then opens themselves up to those potential opportunities.

It has taken me a while to understand that I take these specific steps towards my goals somewhat unknowingly. Now recognizing them I thought it time to put them on paper… or on the blog.

So what will follow is a short series. I will identify the steps I take on a daily basis that allows me to put my goals out into the universe.


This post is post is part of a bigger series called Let The Universe Know What You Want. See the other posts below:

• Seek Out Subject Matter Experts
• Let Your Passion Drive You

Written by kylewith · Categorized: Entrepreneurial, Journal · Tagged: drive, goals, opportunity, passion

Jul 23 2017

Bigger than myself

I want to continue to discuss that feeling of changing the world. To navigate through my own thoughts and processes for determining what it is I’m aspiring to do.
 
Lately, when I consider what I want to do I keep coming to the idea of concepts that are bigger than myself.
 
And when I say bigger than me I mean who benefits most from the concept and who the concept is for.
 
Be it is food, tourism or small business.
 
When I think about what I want to do my conclusion is often other peoples success.
 
Everything that I want to do I want to directly relate to helping some else succeed in their area of interest.
 
That is what I’m passionate the most about. Helping other succeed.
 
Nothing brings me more joy than seeing someone accomplishing a goal they set out for themselves.
 
Now, I air on the side of wanting to help people that are doing things they are passionate about. As if their passion feeds my passion.
 
Don’t get me wrong, I love being the person who creates a product. Delivers it and sees the customers reaction when receiving it. It is instant gratification for me. It is like a little drug. A kick of endorphins.
 
What I struggle with is seeing longevity in this. I don’t see how I can grow these hobbies so they can continue to gratify me. While also bringing longterm stability and success.
 
Yes, it is possible to grow these gratifying hobbies into sustaining businesses. Expanding space, availability, team, etc. I know that, but that’s, not me.
 
We have to consider the fact that I’m a multipotentialite. I like to do many things. All the time. And, that it isn’t a bad thing if we recognize it and steer it properly.
 
Let’s look at With Bread for a second. My semi-successful artisan bread micro-bakery serving Yellowknife. I’ve grown this little side gig into a one day a week operation. It runs efficiently and brings a decent return while also filling a small gap in the local economy, i.e. no bakery. I’ve invested in some industrial equipment. Created some dedicated space for this operation. And by all accounts, I’m on my way to opening a brick and mortar bakery. Or partnering with a local cafe to provide fresh artisan bread.
 
Do I want to be a bread baker or bakery owner full time?
 
Nope.
 
No.
 
Not at all.
 
I enjoy the one day of instant gratification I get from running the micro-bakery in the summer.
 
What I want to do is use the knowledge I’ve gained to help others with similar passions achieve their goals.
 
I want to use the return I’m getting from With Bread to create a certified space. A space that other vendors could use it to grow their businesses or ideas.
 
Then I want to use my knowledge of workflow development to help those vendors improve workflows. Workflows that make them more efficient and profitable.
 
Then I want to use my ongoing marketing experience to help these vendors grown communities around their brands. Help make them essential in peoples Farmers Market experiences.
 
The same with my endeavour into being a local tourism operator. I hold a license that covers many different products and I do guide tours and love it. I especially love getting to show people Yellowknife. Yellowknife is my favourite.
 
At the same time, I also recognize that there are a lot of people passionate about Yellowknife. Or people who have passions the tourism industry in Yellowknife would benefit from. I want to help those people.
 
Without too much depth or detail I see my own tourism business as a launching point. An opportunity for those who have ideas or don’t even know they have the potential for it to work with me. To develop and test out different products in the market. A way to test before taking the plunge and making a huge investment.
 
In both these concepts, and there are a few more, I’m feeding my own passion and desire. I’m setting myself up to achieve my overarching goal. The goal of helping people succeed at what they are passionate about. I’m also able to feed my desire to do many things. Each person or business I work with will be different but will, for the most part, have a passionate drive.
 
And by writing this down I’m starting to see how these desires here help define how I can change the world. See my last article.
 
My next string of thoughts will be one of two thoughts. How to talk to a Business Coach about business when you want to be a Business Coach yourself. Or, how to define the part of the world you want to change.
 
And, always remember, I’m not an expert. I externalize my thoughts. I’m delusional sometimes. If so, please tell me. Or not.

Written by kylewith · Categorized: Entrepreneurial, Journal · Tagged: desire, goal, life, passion, purpose

Jul 19 2017

I want to change the world

I want to change the world.

I want to change the world for the better. Leave it a better place than when I showed up.

It is a weird feeling. It is a feeling of an undeniable drive to do something bigger than myself. It consumes my thoughts. It steals my energy and drains my emotions.

The problem is I don’t yet know what that is.

The first thing I have to come to grips is what this actually means to change the world.

A key lesson I have learned is that if I change one person’s outlook on life then I have changed the world.

A statement like wanting to change the world has the connotation of wanting to make a global impact but that doesn’t have to be true. We often forget the world is made up of many things; people, animals, places, objects and so on.

If you change any of those things, you have technically changed the world from what it was before you did it.

So when a statement is made about changing the world a person must first consider what part of the world they want to change and why.

In my own case when I make the statement about changing the world it comes from that drive to do something bigger than myself.

I could simply live my life working for my own well-being. Grow my business to serve me, support me and let me do only things that benefit me. This might work for many people but it does not for me.

My businesses do serve me, support me and let me do things I enjoy but I can’t shake the feeling that I am meant to do more.

 

If you look at the front page of this website you will see the mantra: “In everything I do, I do to help people communicate around the topics, ideas, and passions they have.” I believe this wholeheartedly, but I feel like it is not defined enough yet.

I feel like I need to define my true purpose before I can attack this desire to do more and ultimately change the world, however I define it.

More to come on purpose next time…

Written by kylewith · Categorized: Journal · Tagged: changing the world, purpose

Feb 12 2017

Thoughts On How To Write A Book

Kyle Thomas Book

How do you start writing a book? Do you start with the idea you have and expand on it? Do you develop the outline of the book? Do you start with an introduction?

These are all questions I’m pondering as I get anxiety about the idea of writing another book.

I’m not a novelist, nor do I write short stories or fiction. I write creative non-fiction. Or at least that’s what I think I write.

My first book was a photo book. Stories accompanied the photos, called Yellowknife Streets. It documented the lives of many of the people living on the streets of Yellowknife at that time.

I know for that book I started writing each story that I acquired. As more acquired the book started to form into its own. I then spent time thinking about why I was doing what I was doing. What I wanted to accomplish. And what I wanted other people to understand about the book and the people in it.

This understanding of the book as a whole helped me write the introduction.

So in that case, I wrote the entire book first and the introduction last. Is that normal?

This next book that I have an idea for is also fiction but not a photo book. And it won’t feature specific people.

It will be different. For me.

I’m excited about this but also nervous. Hence the pondering, how does a person start writing a book.

Some of the tactics I ponder are:

  • Can I write the introduction first and let it guide the book?
  • Should I storyboard the rough outline I currently have knowing more will arise?
  • Can I start writing it before I’ve done all the research?
  • Should I have an editor help me figure out the outline of the book?
  • Can I add to the outline after I’ve written most of the book?
  • What does enough information look like to start writing a book?
  • Can I write the book one chapter at a time and then put it all together later?

These are all naive questions to ask. I didn’t research how to write a book. Or take a course. Or go to school for writing. Or ask a writer friend. Or have the desire to do any of those things. I just want to write.

The book I want to write follows the same principles as most of the business books I read.

What I have learned from those books is that I should know what I want the reader to learn. Have a general outline. And throughout the book have each chapter build on the last but also stand on its own.

From my general understanding of these books. It is best to intertwine the information about that chapter with a case study of it in practice. Doing this I assume gives you a better chance of keeping the attention of the reader.

This poses another question.

  • Is there a simple formula I can follow for writing each chapter of the book?

Again, these are the questions I am pondering. This is my own adventure into writing something longer than a blog post.

I don’t expect to come to an answer quickly.

And it sounds cliche, but the idea of writing out these questions helps me see what I need to overcome.

In closing, I’m reminded of a Hemingway quote: “All you have to do is write one true sentence. Write the truest sentence that you know.”

Written by kylewith · Categorized: Entrepreneurial, Journal · Tagged: author, novel, writing

Feb 05 2017

My Antisocial Running Regiment

Since posting my long piece on my personal health changes I have been thinking more and more about why I run.

Running for me has become my activity of choice for getting my blood moving and heart pumping. I love the feeling of running while I’m doing it. And the feeling of accompaniment when I’m done, but I’ve also been very protective of my running time.

Over the last severals months, I’ve been asked to go running with other people. Sometimes on the weekends and sometimes during the week. Yet I have always declined. And it makes me feel awkward.

It is not that I don’t want to be with other people or that I’m too self-conscious I don’t think I could keep up. It’s that running for me is a very personal and scheduled activity.

In this past few weeks, I’m come to describe my approach to running as a very utilitarian activity.

Running as a leisurely activity still doesn’t compute for me. I can’t bring myself to go for a run in the middle of the day on a whim.

I don’t run at random. I don’t run for the fun of it. I don’t run to waste time.

I run because of science. I run because I’m doing “X” for a certain amount of time to get to “Y”. I run because I’ve learned I need to exert more energy to improve and maintain a healthy self.

Yes, I sound like a robot but that is how my logical brain works. And how I’ve come to fit something I never use to do into a daily routine.

The hardest part for me while picking up running was giving myself the permission to do it. And the best way I found I could do that was by telling myself I’m going to do it first thing in the morning for 6 days a week.

Running first thing in the morning is great for me because I’m a morning person. I’m on the treadmill or outside by 5:50 am. It also means that running doesn’t interfere with any other scheduled activities in my day.

I live by my routine and to break it is very hard for me. So to go for a random run in the middle of my day would throw me off. And I like my structured routine. I do allow for flexibility in that routine. But when it comes to something as important as being physically activity I am now determined to keep to my regiment. So even if plans in the day or evening change I know I did my exercise and don’t have to stress about it.

So while I may shift into leisurely running with other people, when summer comes perhaps. For now, I’ll stick to my regiment.

At the same time, I’m curious to know how other people have dealt with similar internal struggles? Do you follow a regiment and running socially? Is it possible? Am I anti-social?

Written by kylewith · Categorized: Journal · Tagged: activities, health, running

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